Over the years I have been working with abuse survivors and PTSD sufferers, I have come to appreciate the urgent need of reconnecting people with their high positive memories to stabilise their energy systems and counterbalance the "trauma labyrinth." In 2020, I finally decided to make this official and created Star Matrix - the high energy, positive alternative to the endless quest for trauma. You can start with your own Book of Stars today. Read on.
Welcome To "Heal Child Abuse" - Now!Emotions & Feelings make sense when you factor in THE ENERGY BODY! Watch this short video for the Modern Energy basics! We have good news for you if you are a victim of child abuse, or if you are seeking to help victims of child abuse. The many strange and terrifying symptoms of child abuse survivors, which could never be properly explained at all by old fashioned psychology and psychotherapy, have simple, clear cut reasons - child abuse survivors have significant and absolutely REAL injuries in their energy bodies which were never addressed at alll In a society that pretends there is no such thing as energy at all, there is no proper explanations for the intense emotional experiences and the effects child abuse has on a person, nor why these problems should become worse, the longer they remain untreated. When we take the energy paradigm into consideration, everything starts to make sense - and that is important for people who sincerely think they must be insane because of their thoughts, emotions and actions. But what is even better still, when we start to work with the energy universe and our own energy bodies, we have real and working strategies for emotional healing that were never available before. To this day, the vast majority of psychologists and psychotherapists are completely unaware of the fact that whole new ways of treating and managing the symptoms of child abuse are in existence. We are here to tell you this - your energy body is REAL, the injuries it has received at the hands of abusers are also entirely REAL, they are not in your head, they really are in your energy body. And your energy body can be healed, and when it does, you will start to feel better. It is really as simple as that. Below is a short video that explains the effects of energy body stress on a person; if this makes sense to you, please make it your business to learn more about modern energism and energy healing for you. Your happiness really, REALLY matters to us all. "Your Happiness Matters!"
It Was My Fault - I Knew It Was Wrong ... The great block to energy healing deeply traumatic experiences - and not just for child sex abuse survivors.
Child sex abuse always produces severe "injuries of the spirit" - actual, structural damage in the child's energy body. However, this is especially pronounced when the perpetrator was supposedly a spiritual teacher or role model. As a representative of God, the relationship between the child and God itself is disrupted and destroyed. The Jesus Meditations are particularly designed to restore that essential connection to God, to spirit - and for Christians, to Jesus. *Full Texts are provided as a free PDF download.
Something very difficult and damaging happens when human beings have an experience, try to tell others about it, and these others don't believe a word they say.
Working with the energy system is a profoundly gentle and helpful way to help sex abuse survivors learn how to deal with their "extremely personalised" energy systems and understand the cause and effect of their thoughts, emotions and behaviours in a new way. These are the handout notes for energists who may be unfamiliar or afraid to treat sex abuse survivors from Silvia Hartmann's presentation at the 2012 GoE conference.
Therapeutic metaphor work with child abuse survivors is both fascinating as well as intensely challenging. Because the experience of child abuse survivors isn't the same as that of "ordinary" people, likewise "ordinary" or stock metaphors, as you might find in a dream book or such, aren't going to cut it. This is why child abuse survivors often react so negatively to standard therapeutic metaphors and may come away thinking that metaphor work isn't right for them - when nothing could be further from the truth. You just have to find the right kind of metaphors ...
I think there is a global and general if rarely spoken out aloud idea even amongst healers that child abuse survivors and especially child sex abuse survivors "are too broken to heal" and all we can hope for is some kind of minor symptom relief. I'd like to firstly, put this idea squarely on the table (and out of the closet!) and secondly, discuss the flaws of that presupposition.
That's a good question, and for me, there can be only one answer - start by creating your own Sanctuary. This is a safe place in mind and imagination and more than that, it is a starting point to re-connect our human faculties in a whole new way. Many if not most child abuse and child sex abuse survivors have an outstanding imagination, for the better or for the worse. This can cause problems with hallucinations, visions and nightmares; but when we channel and learn to control our imaginations, we can use this fabulous talent and skill for healing, and so much more besides, it really is awesome. And it starts with Project Sanctuary.
I once knew an artist who had suffered from significant sexual abuse from an early age. This had caused major disturbances in his mind/body systems and as a result, he had nightmares, strange visions, problems of all kinds with his thinking and feeling. As a result he found himself, as so many child abuse survivors do, being far more "creative" than his peers and as is often the case, this led him to pursue a career in the arts. However, there was a problem with his creativity. He painted the same picture, the same story, over and over again ...
The client is male, 32, and has an assortment of problems, ranging from a number of addictions to behaviour and learning disorders, anger management issues, depression, anxiety, nightmares, and "crazy thoughts". He suspects that he might have sexually abused as a child but has no memory thereof, and is frightened of both remembering, and not remembering. The practitioner has explained that they will create an events model, an artificial memory and deal with that, as a practice piece and also to get some forward movement into a system that has been stuck and spinning its wheels for the better part of three decades.
A psychologist wrote to me and asked if EMO was "suitable to use with child abuse survivors". This is what I told them.
There are a lot of people out there who were abused as children in one way or the other, traumatised entirely and something happened that made them doubt the reality and validity of their own truthful experience. The classic scenario would be that they were accused of lying instead of someone listening and trying to help. Or accused of "making things worse than they are", or entirely "making up this whole story for attention". Here is a simple and profound idea for a resolution of this bitter (and often frightening) conflict between "real" and "imagined" injuries, memories and pain.
The EMO Heart Healing meditation came spontaneously into being when I received a message for help from a lady who had been sexually abused as a child and, now in her mid twenties, wasn't getting any better, but worse instead.
People have a physical body, and they have an energy body. Everybody does, whether they like it or not; and this energy body can develop serious injuries if a person is being mistreated or abused, especially sexually abused, and especially so when this happens at an early age. You can't see "the scars of child sex abuse" on the body, but you can feel them *in* your body - these are the painful emotions, feedback devices that tell us when something is wrong in the energy system. This being so, energy healing - healing the energy body of injuries and scars - is the only reliable and direct way to change the way a person "feels" - literally.
Inner child and art therapy, magic art, energy art, totem making, well, the 14 books write themselves, don't they? Does a picture say more than a thousand words on the topic of The Inner Child? You be the judge of that ...
This is a true EMO case story, involving a policeman, a rape victim, self mutilation and how the understanding of energy exchanges totally transforms the theory and practice of human psychology.
There are a lot of people out there who were abused as children in one way or the other, traumatised entirely and something happened that made them doubt the reality and validity of their own truthful experience. The classic scenario would be that they were accused of lying instead of someone listening and trying to help. Or accused of "making things worse than they are", or entirely "making up this whole story for attention". Here is a simple and profound idea for a resolution of this bitter (and often frightening) conflict between "real" and "imagined" injuries, memories and pain.
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